Expressing your feelings and experiences on paper does not need any tips or assistance. Just take a paper and fill it with words that best expresses your feelings. The success of a poem depends on how well you communicate your experiences. But if you want to communicate with the reader just expressing how you feel is not sufficient, you have to work towards generating an emotional connect with the reader. This is where you need help. Making a transition from a general poetry writer to kindling the emotions of the reader needs special skill. Here are some tips that you could use.
Stay away from celebrating your ideas and feelings. A poet centric poem that talks about poet does not generate good response. Work towards writing poems that could invoke feelings of the reader. Such poems are written for the sake of the reader.
Unless you have a goal in mind, you will not know in which direction to follow. Ask yourself what you want to accomplish by writing the poem. The poem could be on a way of life, admiring nature, beauty, social injustice, etc. Once this goal is defined the poem takes an easy flow.
Overusing literary elements could be called clichés. Using a popular plot or a stock character could also be termed as cliché. Lone Ranger cowboy is a well known example of cliché and people use it so often that it fails to make an impact. Many fail to communicate properly with the use of cliché. Readers are looking for works that are out of the ordinary. If the work is loaded with clichés reader feel that the writer has not done enough homework to express their talent.
An overwhelming emotion of sympathy or love could be called sentimentality. Some of the popular subjects include young lovers, puppies, etc. It gives a feel that the emotions are artificial and does not yield the desired response.